So Others May Eat: A Rice and Beans Challenge

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In the beginning of January, our pastor invited our church to participate in a season of Asking with Fasting as a congregation. The church gave out a prayer calendar to each person which designated a different prayer focus for each day. As for fasting, he asked us to pray about how God might be calling us to participate personally.

When this invitation was made, my husband and I got very excited. We have fasted in the past and seen God move in powerful ways through those consecrated times and seasons.

A Fast for Others

Isaiah 58 outlines what God wants from us when we fast. As I read it, one section really stuck out to me in a new way:

Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the straps of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke? Is it not to share your bread with the hungry and bring the homeless poor into your house; when you see the naked, to cover him, and not to hide yourself from your own flesh? Then shall your light break forth like the dawn, and your healing shall spring up speedily....” – Isaiah 58:6-8

As my husband and I prayed about what God wanted us to do in response to our pastor’s challenge, we both felt prompted to fast in different ways individually. But I wanted our family to do something together – something that even my children could participate in.

As I prayed, I felt prompted by the verse in Isaiah 58 that speaks of fasting in order to share your bread with the hungry. I decided that during a certain period of time, we would set aside a number of meals each week where we would just eat rice and beans. Then we would give what we saved in our grocery budget to feed the homeless in our area.

Why Rice and Beans?

Most of the world lives on an existence diet – just enough to get them through the day. In many of these countries, this diet consists of rice and beans (often only served once per day).

I want my kids to learn that this is the diet of much of the world. And that even as children, they can personally sacrifice in a small way so that others might eat.

But I wanted more for them – I wanted them not to just see Mom write a check to a homeless shelter, but to have the chance to connect intimately in giving to others what we all save together.

After praying and calling a few places, I found a shelter 10 minutes from our house that is for women and children only. They would love for our whole family to come, prepare a meal in their kitchen (with ingredients we would purchase from what we saved eating rice and beans) and then serve and eat with the women and children.

My children are so excited to join in this endeavor, knowing that they will be able to be a part of serving when it is over.

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Won’t You Join Us?

When we shared in our church small group how each of us has chosen to participate, a friend of mine sent me to this website of a church that did something very similar. Many people in this church ate rice and beans for a week and gave what they saved to those in need. It even lists some wonderful recipes to get you started!

If you would like to participate in a meaningful fast as an individual or as a family, consider joining us in this rice and beans challenge!

Small sacrifices from each of us can go a long way to ensuring that others may eat. I’d love to hear from you if you choose to join in!

A Celebration of Advent with 25 Random Acts of Kindness

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 “Take time to be aware that in the very midst of our busy preparations for the celebration of Christ’s birth in ancient Bethlehem, Christ is reborn in the Bethlehems of our homes and daily lives. Take time, slow down, be still, be awake to the Divine Mystery that looks so common and so ordinary yet is wondrously present.” – Edward Hays, A Pilgrims Almanac

Advent is a season of waiting and preparation for the Nativity of Christ – the word “advent” is the translation of the Latin word “adventus” meaning “coming” and the Greek word “parousia” which refers to the Second Coming of Christ.

Why Celebrate Advent?

I confess that I don’t remember celebrating the season of Advent as a child in a Protestant Christian home. It wasn’t until I started having my own children that I began to be enlightened to the greater purpose of this season. Children know something of anticipation that we adults have left behind long ago, it seems.

By the time Thanksgiving rolls around, their eyes begin to shine with joy and anticipation. After watching this a second time around (with child #2), I had a “Aha!” moment – they should be anticipating Christmas every single day – I just needed to help them see why.

This is a season to make room for Christ to be born in our hearts. 

Mary wasn’t planning on becoming pregnant. But her response to this frightening, unexpected pregnancy is one of peaceful, trusting surrender: “Behold, the handmaid of The Lord; let it be unto me according to Thy Word.”

This is a time to direct our passions and longings towards Christ and not towards the stuff this earth can offer. It’s not about the cookies, music, presents, holiday parties, or even the relatives who come to visit (although these are all fun and festive bonuses!)

25 Acts of Kindness

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This is a season to ponder God’s great gift to us – that of His only Son – and then stretch ourselves and increase the generosity of our own hearts.

It is humbling to meditate on how God the Father gave His best, His only Son to us – for us. As we contemplate how Christ humbled Himself to be wrapped in human flesh, born to die that we might be reunited with the Father, our hearts overflow with gratitude which we long to pour into the lives of friends, neighbors, and even strangers.

This is a point that we will choose to linger on this year as a family. A friend of mine found this blog post with an idea to do 25 Random Acts of Kindness – one act of kindness each day – during the season of Advent. Her family did this last year and had some pretty amazing experiences and opportunities to spread the love of Christ as a result.

I wasn’t so much into the brown bag idea, so I checked Pinterest out and found this  great idea. I love that this calendar is one that we painted together and can keep and re-use for years to come.

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I’m placing two different slips of paper in each day’s box. One will include a passage of Scripture for reflection and prayer (I’m choosing this year to focus on prophesies about Christ in the Old Testament and their fulfillment in the New Testament).

The other will include an “act of kindness” that we will accomplish as a family. While I liked many of the random acts suggested by the blog I referenced, I plan to tailor ours to center on the people, neighborhood, community, and opportunities that surround our lives specifically.

I pray that with each act of kindness completed, we will grow in our understanding that it truly is more blessed to give than to receive – and that Christmas is all about what Christ has given us (Himself) and what He has placed in our hands and hearts to give to others.

Do you celebrate Advent? If so, what are some of your favorite ways to celebrate? I would love to hear from you!